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Most say an alcohol lamp is the best way to bend stems, and I'll agree. Problem in my case, is my only alcohol lamp is a family heirloom, and my ol lady would kill me for using it. So, I devisedd my own.
I used the tool supplied with most chainsaws for the bar nuts, but a quality socket (not plated) or piece of conduit would work too... I think. Anyway, cotton ball jammed 2/3 way inside of whatever you're using, 4-5 drops of D/A, and voila! I sit mine on a steel table in case the D/A drips, hence the small amount used. It will flare up at first, but once the cotton starts to wick, you'll have more than enough time to heat and bend your stem. I hold it to the side of the flame to avoid overheating.
This may be the dumbest way to do this, but it works for me and I figured it may help someone else save a buck or two.
BE CAREFUL, keep a bowl of water nearby, and make sure you get mommy's permission first
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