Thank you for the feedback. It takes time to look and comment and I appreciate that.
Re: staining: Having started to look into this in more detail, I wonder if I'm going about it wrong. I sand to 600, then stain, then tripoli, then stain, then white diamond, then light waxing, then I'm done. I spend an awful lot of time sanding relative to staining, and the stain goes on very lightly. How outside the norm am I? Wait, don't answer that, if the answer is go read through the history of the finishing sub-forum. I promise I will do that...
Re: my first pipe? Hell no! Try #109. The weirdest thing I've attempted is a volcano.

I've been pretty much trying to make shapes with pleasing proportions, at least to my eyes. I have a thing called the "ugly context" test. I set the pipe down randomly in the ugliest spot I can find in the workshop, and then try and figure out where it's wonky based on that. Prolly sounds crazy, but it's like a way of making sure I'm not being fooled by a pretty background.